Winter is a strange time...on the one hand I love winter- the white landscapes, the silence, the smell,...but on the other hand
winter is a time in which I become kinda depressive. Like a blanket the sadness overcomes me and I don't know why.

I met up with this boy today but it wasn't very nice. After this I met up with my best friend Jolie and it was just perfect...she lights up my whole little world. I think if there's a heaven she will be there immediately and getting a Job as an angel there. She is an angel...and I love her.
We laid in her bed laughing and talking about everything...
What I like most about her is that she loves everything at me. And by the way she looks at me I get the chance to become or be exactly the person I want to be: me, well my best version. It's never wasted in her presence.

Winter might become a hard time now, because of my sadness...but she will be my hope. My boyfriend too, but he is so far away...it hurts sometimes.
To be honest sometimes I don't believe in the sense of this kind of relationship, but everything is possible. I will fight like i fighted for everything before...he deserves it the most. He deserves to be fighted for, but maybe he deserves a better girlfriend than me. I wish I had spend all my love and energy just on him...I'm exhausted.

sleep well my flowers,
Nives

my dear roses,
this entry now might become a bit emotional...
A boy "Mr.Sim" (for whom I had once feelings- but they're all gone now) want to meet with me but he always treated me like shit and was so bad to me. I told my boyfriend about it and he was angry at the whole situation- and I really understand it. I always forgive people (especially those who don't deserve it). Why? I have the feeling, that they need my fogiveness...that I'm their hero, that they need me. But they don't. They just will use my goodness. My boyfriend worries about me...but he doesn't understand me. He doesn't understand the situation. I think the meeting tomorrow will be very weird. But I need to see him...I need to talk to him, I don't want him to get lost under all his false friends. I don't know if I want to be a friend of him, because this will mean to risk my heart again...but I kinda like risking my heart. Let's see what happens tomorrow. I think everyone deserves chances...a lot of them. I can't tell you exactly how many but you know that doesn't matter... it's not about numbers.

I feel alone...but there are so many people who want to meet, write or speak with me. Instead of trying to stay in contact with everyone I'm staying on my own in my little bedroom suffering from loneliness. It's just stupid. My ex boyfriend wants to meet with me but the problem is that it will just make me sad. I'm over him as a boyfriend but I'm not over him as a friend. We were like best friends, we saw each other so often and we did everything together. I miss a boy being my friend, taking part of my daily life,...
My boyfriend now is the best man I can imagine. He is so nice, kind, intelligent and funny....but I want him by my side. I don't want him to be far away in Germany....why, when people are ment to be together, why does distance separe them?

Hello out there!
So here I am again- sorry for not writing in the last days.
The christmascelebration yesterday was just so beautiful! All started with the wonderful dinner which my father had prepared (it took him for about 3 hours!!). Ah I forgot to tell you that I got braces so it was quite difficult to eat...for a few days now its difficult to eat and I lost nearly 2 kg haha. Well I can't wait for the day where I can eat again properly*.*. After christmasdinner we had a big rush to go to mass but we arrived on time and it was a nice mass with a lot of beautiful songs (even when everything was very simple). When we finally came home we sang under the christmastree...our christmastree is just so beautiful and he smells so wonderful. We even have real candles on him (which I think is really dangerous but we always did it like that and there was never an accident or something wrong with it).
And theeeeeen we got our presents yaiii :)
I got a new desk for my room which is bigger than the last one. It's a white one and it fits so perfectly in my room!! Maybe I'll show you some pictures next time from a few things I got.

Tomorrow at 12 a.m. one of my best friends parents give me a lift to town where I will meet my friends and celebrate christmas with them aswell. I love our little christmaspartys. They are always so peaceful...with candles, cookies, presents, music and a lot of love. I really enjoy it to be with them.

Ahhh and on Silvester I'll see my boyfriend... can't wait to see him. Ok I just saw him last week but yes it's just always so nice to see him.

good night my lovely flowers!
Nives

My dear roses,
I'm home- finally. Right now I'm half sitting and laying in my little bed and listening to classic music.
I'm almost done with unpacking my suitcase and order the things into my wardrobe. Yesterday I started to wrap all the gifts for my friends and family and now it's all finished - I'm ready for christmas.
Yesterday I showed Similu my room and our kitchen in a videoclip which I sent him per whatsapp. He was happy about it and I'm happy that he is still a part of my life. Well I know that there will come times where we will get a bit lost in our own lifes and forgetting...
but we will always keep each other in ones heart and that's the most important.
Tomorrow I'll see my boyfriend and spend two days with him. I was never alone with him that much time I think. Tomorrow we will go out to eat pizza and on the next day we'll watch a movie at the cinema (probably starwars).
I think to see him again will heal all my little wounds. It was so sad without him sometimes I blamed him for this sad feeling. He has a lot to do - universitylife is hard, especially his study, so I really try to understand that now.
In the end everything will be so good and I really can't wait to see him. I'll go for a cup of tea now write you later,
Nives